You control your actions, but sometimes, we wait until we are acted upon. We allow others to determine our fate, because we are either not willing to take command or we believe we are not worthy or ready.
Do not let your situation control you. Be the leader of your own life. Step up and take command. Your Heavenly Father loves you and will support you in any righteous act.
Love Him and yourself enough to use the agency He gave you to be better than your situation, no matter what it is. You can be happy, but you must choose to be.